“When you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”

What is required to live a vibrant, healthy, generative, long lasting relationship?

Who does one need to be and what are the most useful skills?

By curiously observing and researching relationships, often what is seen is a hopefulness that things will work out well with less than the necessary effort expended to ensure success. Even with many partners who appear to be exerting effort, the effort often lacks full commitment with just an intention to fix the other person or a lack of skill and wisdom. There are ways to create, live, and support generative, long lasting relationships.

Why is relationship work important to me? I have been blessed with a willing partner allowing us to explore and evolve our relationship into something that is generative, allows for each other’s full expression of who we are, and to ongoingly live in a generative relationship. We know it is possible to have a relationship that is fun, supportive, vibrant, and passionate. We have been together for 40 years and make no mistake! It takes work.

From a place of professional experience and competency – between us we have over 40 years of coaching experience and personal development work – we are offering coaching for couples. With a divorce rate of 40%-50%, with a cost of $6 billion dollars a year to the US economy, and the personal cost to individuals and children related to their well-being, we see something needs to change. We are committed to supporting couples who are willing to make the effort to live a generative relationship and have produced a method and process of somatic coaching for couples.


What makes a Generative Relationship? See: 12 Aspects of a Generative Relationship

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“Nothing in this world was more difficult than love.”
Gabriel Garcí­a Márquez